I credit the Enneagram with teaching me a new possibility for moving gracefully through a potentially painful transition.  read more »

Our feeling of having power or lacking power comes from our experience in everyday, moment-to-moment transactions.  read more »

Sometimes the more oppressed person needs to scream and shout, express deep emotion, anger, and fear before s/he can listen to what other people think, want, or need.  read more »

 Most of us are so accustomed to fast forwarding past discomfort into new activity that the moment of discomfort may not even reach our conscious awareness.  read more »